17 Tips to Write a Killer Personal Ad

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Online dating websites offer the easier and

quicker way for single guys to meet women. The

use of online personal ads to get the audience

you desire is quite different that picking up a

girl in the real life situations. When you meet

her at a bar, party or disco it might be

difficult for you to approach her, you may feel

embarrassed, but with online dating, it is easier

and less stressful.



Therefore, you have made up your mind to put a

personal ad, but you are getting none or few

responses to your request and no girl is

approaching you. Remember that you have to

attract women with your online ad. These days

very sophisticated personal ads are appearing in

top quality dating sites.



In today's world of online dating personal ads,

have to be witty, informative, and hopefully

effective. If you want to get the best personal

ad, you must to present the right image, get

people to interact you by being friendly and

chatting every day. You should try in every

single way possible to prove and show that you

are as you have said, including your own

personality and characteristics. Writing a

personal ad is like writing a love letter, a poem

dedicated to your future partner.



For to increase your success in online dating you

have to make your personal ad to be the best.

Here are some tips that might help you.



- first and the most important is that you must

complete your personal profile fully, to be

informative, complete, to make the woman

interested



- run spell-check - a profile full of mistakes

shows that you are a sloppy, careless type



- add a photograph; ensure that the photo is

bright, clear and recent; a perfect picture with

the right clothing and a smiled face will have a

big effect recording to the visitors of your

personal ad; many people don't add a profile

photo because they think that they aren't

photogenic; but this is a wrong idea because the

profiles that haven't a photo is much less viewed

like the other



- be yourself, be sincere and say what you like

and looking for; be honest, if you are looking

just for a casual date because you already have a

wife, say it, don't imply that you are looking

for marriage just to get more details, because

this is a waste of time for everyone



- avoid major disclosures - you don't have to

tell everything about yourself in the first

paragraph, this will not be interesting anymore



- splatter your profile with humor, drama, funky

metaphors, they will draw instant attention and

interested



- don't be aggressive or rude in your personal ad,

because this will show that you are not friendly

and open for new friends



- communicate - it is important to communicate if

you want to make friends and to know better the

possible partners



- keep your profile positive and update, so don't

use words like ''desperate'' , hurry to meet

someone



- don't use swear words because are generally

offensive and turn people off



- list all the things you like can be a handful;

choose one good example and talk about why you

like it



- don't make list of your accomplishments; avoid

using personals adjectives like: I'm a

spontaneous, creative, honest person



- you can include the things that make up your

good points like the fact that you like kids, or

you are told that you are funny



- ask questions to them to answer via email



- also try to response at people messages in a

reasonable amount of time, not after a month



- be positive , show that you love life and know

how to live it



- be patient; it is true that it takes a time

until you meet somebody and get to know her

better, but it works



Also in your personal ad, you can include some

action phrases, which will express your

personality and characteristics. Some of this

action phrases are:



- long term relationship - shows the fact that

you have the sense of commitment, you are ready

for a long relationship



- great personality - express the fact that you

have a truly magnificent personality and it's

worth meeting you



- no baggage - means that you are completely

free of attachments such as a spouse or child



- active and adventurous - means that you are in

a really good shape, physically fit



- ask me anything - shows that you are honest,

adventurous and open to sharing details about

yourself



Now that you know how to make your personal ad to

be the best, I wish you good luck in finding the

13 Love Killer Phrases

Even if you love her very much and you are getting pretty close, these things that can affect your relationship should be kept in secret. Sometimes you can best show her your love by keeping your mouth shout. So, before you start to be too confident and directly with her, you should take a look at these things that may destroy your relationship.



Never tell her she is getting fat



Even if this is true, you can't tell her this. It will make her feel very bad, and will think that you don't like her anymore. Think about how she would feel if you go there and say: '' honey, you could stand to lose a little weight ''. Let her decide when is the time to lose weight because she will do it without you hurting her. In most of the cases when a man told her girlfriend that she got fat, he gets dumped.



Don't tell her how your mother would have done things



I know that for men their mothers always represent a model in life, but we have to admit that all the families are different. So, we have been raised by different kinds of parents and in different ways of life. Everyone is taught to do things in their ways and that's why you can't ask your girlfriend to do things or to live like your mother. A woman can have her views and opinions, and all you can do about this is to tell her stories about how you were raised and how things have been done in your family. You should adapt at this new way of life, without comparing her with your mom.



Don't tell her that you like to visit your mom too often



Maybe in that moment you love your mother more that her, but you don't have to show it. She may think that she is competing with your mom, or worst, that you are depending on mommy. It is not at all in your favor.



Don't criticize her when she is trying to do her best



This is the worst thing you can do. If she sees that she is trying hard to do the things fine and you begin criticize her, she would feel disappointed that you don't know to appreciate her for the fact that she is trying her best. So you should get over it, and offer you to help her in doing that job. Maybe next time she'll be doing better.



Never tell her if your family doesn't like her



Even if your family dislike her, it is better to not tell her because she will get angry and insecure. This will create future problems and tension between her and your family. All you can do is to let your family know that she is the one you have chosen and they have to respect your decision. Try to make them change their minds about her.



Don't remind her about your ex in a special moment



Never ever compare your dating nights or things you do together with the ones you have done with your ex. It might happen to go with her in places where you have been with the other, but don't remind her that. It is a hurtful thing for her to see that you are still thinking about the other.



Also, never compare her to your ex in bed. She will feel bad to find out that the other was better than she in bed. No woman likes to be compared to another, in any aspect.



Don't recognize if you have done bad things in your past



If she doesn't find out already, you better keep your mouth shout; it is in your favor. If you tell her that you have cheated your past girlfriends, for example, she will have a totally bad opinion about you, and also fell disappointed. So these things you shouldn't divulge.



Never tell her that a football game is more important for you than her



Even if is an important game, don't tell her to let you alone in that moment because you are busy and don't have time for her. You better smile and pretend that you are listening to her too, and try to catch the key words. She might ask you what she was talking to you to test you.



Don't tell her that you hate her friends



Because she knows her friends for a long time that she knows you, it is not a good idea to tell her that she doesn't like her friends, or to say something bad about them. She may get angry about this, so you better pretend that you like them and everything is ok.



Don't ask her to relax when she is very angry



When she is very upset, scared, or very angry the worst thing you can do is to ask her to relax. This will make her angrier because she will think that you don't take her in serious. If you upset her by making some bad things, if you just say her to relax she will understand that you are denying that there is a reason to be upset.



Don't tell her that you are insecure



In a relationship or dating woman is looking after a strong and confident man. So if you are insecure, or you are jealous on her because, for example, she has a better salary than yours, you have to keep this aspect just for yourself. She doesn't have to know it if you want that things between you to go well.



Don't declare your love during a fight



The words ‘‘I love you ‘‘mean a lot for a woman that's why it should be said at the right moment. But most of guys say this during they have a fight with their partner, in the worst moment ever. When you are mistaking in front of her, and let’s say that you feel guilty, you want her to forgive you, so you declare your love for her. It is a wrong choice. She doesn't believe a word in what you say because she considers that if you really loved her you wouldn't upset her. You may say you love her but only after your fight is over.



Do not tell her that you like her girlfriend



Maybe one of her girlfriends is very beautiful and you would like to meet her first, but your actual partner shouldn't find this. If you say her that her best friends looks very good, she will feel hurt, angry and will never trust you around her friends. So keep it secret and make sure to not be obvious from your attitude that you like staring at her girlfriend sometimes.



If you want to have a long and strong relationship you shouldn’t permit that some things you may say to destroy it. Don't be completely honest about the things which should not be told.